Energy Psychology stories

First, I would like to say thank you for giving me an opportunity to assist you. I wish to give you this report for your understanding about your own attribute (positive and negative) so that you can further improve your hidden potentials to the fullest.

This report is based on the use of numerology, invented by Pythagoras, a mathematician, philosopher, scientist who lived around 580 BC in Greece.

Basic Understanding

We all know that each human being is born with good and not so good attributes, i.e. there is no perfect human being. So we have inborn attributes (先天) with four possible outcomes:

Hence important point is how we use our own free will to develop further to creating success. i.e. (後天的努力)

You have hidden strong potential to be independent with your own unique identity. You also have strong tendency towards higher goals / idealism, with capacity to make contribution to the human race.

These hidden potentials take times to nurture and develop. The realization of such potentials to be manifested is also highly dependent on you taking action on the following suggestions to turn some of the not so good attributes, or lacking qualities into positive energy.

You have good sensitivity and feeling, although you may not yet develop effective communication skills to express yourself adequately. {You can practice regularly what I taught you in our session together – the Energy Psychology technique, hereby called EP technique}, Read more books on expressing thoughts and emotions, and articulate those relevant phrases / words in the EP technique to help yourself to express, and open your heart.}

You are obliging and co-operative and can be a good team player. This can be your assets and your friends like such behaviours of yours. At the same time, you also need to be uniquely independent and not be a follower all the time. You may have the dis-advantage that your family background did not help you to be independent. As discussed most parents are not well educated or understand human psychology to help children to learn and grow. However, you are an adult now. you can help yourself in spite of such dis-advantages. How to do that – read on further.

You are also a reflective person, which is a good attribute. However you may not have good number of past resourceful experiences, say, in your background and upbringing, to bring about greater understanding of life and wisdom (after all you are still young, many elderly adults still have not learned anything in life)

Missing Attributes

There are missing attributes, inborn (先天), hence not your fault. Furthermore the adults like parents, during your childhood and background did not know how to help you to fill these missing gaps, again not your faults ) are in :

The above attributes make a person weak in will power, not able to be persistent in pursing the goal and tasks that need to be done. This lead to frustration, lowering of energy and that further create vicious circle of weaker will power and not able to succeed in things.

Currently you experience the above pattern of negative energies : you want to study hard, yet you could not do so consistently, then you do not do well in exam, you get frustrated and you feel regretful and sorry for yourself. This become a pattern and can repeat itself.

Remember, I said the above missing attributes are inborn. Take it as God makes us imperfect to give us opportunities to learn and be better (otherwise God might as well create everyone perfect without weaknesses!).

On reflection, you could see that even though you had your so called ”freedom”, away from family and the small town and be yourself in KL, you experience inability to be independent, taking personal responsibility to do well in your study. So, at this moment, it is inborn, this will repeat itself, in another location away from home, whatever course of study, unless you take steps to develop new skills and fill up the missing attributes.

You have expressed your dilemma: that you think the present course of study is not suitable for you. You are not sure what is suitable. If you do change to another course, you also know that you lack the confidence whether you can do it well or not.

Your gut feeling is correct. Whatever other course of study you decide, the likelihood of repeating the above frustrating pattern is there.

What can you do now? There are many ways and actions you can take, I make some suggestions and you can and should design more action plan for yourself to implement.

On your immediate concern about your study, take the current situation, the dilemma / difficulty as opportunity for you to learn and practice new skills, new attributes.

Focus your attention on smaller goals, smaller action. A journey of a thousand mile needs you to focus and take the first few steps in front of you. This is how you practice ‘facing and accepting reality -腳蹈實地, 面對現實.’

In your scheduled time to do your study homework, say 1-2 hours, plan and focus what you want to learn and do. Learn and practice to enjoy the learning in that 1-2 hours. Your mind should not be whether you can pass or fail in the exam. A good badminton player focuses his attention on how to play the game well with enjoyment, not whether he can or will win or fail to get the Thomas Cup

Do the above regularly and daily. This is also how you practice developing your will power, which comes about when you cumulatively succeed in very small actions with enjoyment.

While doing the above, you experience negatives, feel impatient, feel not fast enough, feel disturbed by things around ….whatever, use the EP technique to help yourself transforming the negative energies to positive..

Overall suggestions for you to take actions to develop new skills / attributes

Year 2016, i.e. age 26 can be your first significant year and age, followed by three more at nine years interval. That is, 4 stages of growth for most people.

Six years from now, you can face a great opportunity or challenge (difficulty) in your life. How well you take the fruits of the opportunity presents to you or how well you overcome the challenge (difficulty) depends on how well you master new skills (as per the above action and homework).

You may experience both the opportunity and challenge at the same time, both auger you well for the next phase of opportunity and challenge.

In year 2016, or 6 years from now, your potential success depends on your new skills in crystallizing your realistic goals, with will power and determination and discipline to implement things and take action from today till then.

Currently you are in [A Mind Expensive Year] – to open up new paradigm like what was discussed in the above, different viewpoints, frame of mind, new mindsets and beliefs. Then the following year is [A Year of Consolidation], provided you do the above homework and do major consolidation of your learning, then you can experience [A Year of Freedom] in the following year and follow by [A Year of Creativity], [A Trough Year of Focus], and finally [A Year of Independence / Wisdom] in year 2016.

You may face a potential challenge (difficulty), six years from now. This may be the situation whereby your longing for freedom is met with many conflicts and dilemma, could be similar or worse than what your experience now. If that is so, it means that you have not prepared yourself well today till six years time, with regards to the self-improvement you need to make for yourself as described in this report.

I sincerely hope you find the above useful and take your firm actions to learn new skills as described in this report.
Cheers
Andrew Wong
Energy Psychology Coach and Trainer.
www.360q.com
17th May, 2010.

Feedback from client:
1st Feedback – “I slept well that night after the Energy Psychology coaching.” (note : sleepless for several nights)
2nd Feedback from client’s friend – (2 days later) - The client was attending some public talk and sounds like the client's voice is much more energized. The client said he practiced the EP technique

Number Psychology training for the public refer : “Number Psychology” (English), "數字心理學" (Chinese)

Numerology helps to get more information for effective coaching / healing like the above. Unlike many profiling tools used by corporation / companies (more expensive too), it is a much simpler and effective tool, with revelation of more hidden messages.

Or, your are welcome to communicate with your HR Director / manager to bring this training to your organization / corporation.

This coach is most grateful to the hundreds of clients (public and corporate) who provide greater learning for the coach in the coaching sessions, thus gaining more experience and insights on what and how coaching works. As a result, this coach is more ready to provide services to the public and corporation more effectively.

While the public continues to benefit from the one-to-one coaching carried out (refer Energy Psychology Coaching Service, and [Money Clinic] Coaching Service) , the corporation and organization can benefit from customized training on Mindset Emotion and Energy Psychology Training to develop internal skills as masterful coaches. (refer Specially for Organization / Corporation). Currently a long term contract is ongoing with a corporation on one to one coaching to the management, and developing them to be masterful internal coaches, thus creating a coaching culture.