By Andrew Wong      31st Oct  2010
Number Psychology and Energy Psychology  Articles Series

Not Knowing one is Lost

NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming)

SF (Solution Focus)

EP (Energy  Psychology)

NP(Number Psychology)




  When one is lost in a jungle, there could be fear, despair, trying hard to find a way out of the jungle. That is when there is the knowing that - you are lost in the jungle.

It is easy to understand the reasons for the frantic search, the purpose of such a struggle and effort. You need to find a way out. Your current situation is not what you want.

What if you do not know you are lost? Maybe because you do not know what you want, what is best for you? Maybe you thought you know what you want, and you just keep on struggling, putting in great efforts. Sometimes you feel relaxed, other time very stressed. In summary just move on with your life, day by day.

Or, what you think you want maybe short live. You may have got what you wanted, then you ask yourself "what next?"

Or what you want, what is the greater purpose in life, is never a big question for you.

That unknowing can be a blessing or a misery.

This is a case of a client who is currently facing some difficulties - sleepless for the past two months, yet sleeping pills did not help much. She knows the underlying issues i.e. relationship problem with someone and her daughter.

She has been a single mother for 15 years. It was mutual consent between her and her then husband to part. She has been very independent, earns her own living and raises the child single-handedly.

Her main aim and focus in life is to give the daughter a good living. She even plans to help the daughter to establish a business and she will assist the daughter in the backroom, i.e. at her daughter's total service.

Lately the grown up daughter clashes with her on many issues, not able to see things eye to eye with her. Especially on something the mother considers very important, yet the daughter shows no kind consideration.

The client faces the same dilemma with another person. She has been very considerate and takes many extra miles to help the person, who does not show much gratitude.

Feeling misunderstood and sacrificing too much for other are the key issues that make her sleepless at night.

Energy Psychology was applied on her and she felt much calmness.

Then she began to have new thoughts about her role and purpose in life. She felt that it could be a wake up call for herself that she should no longer live for the sake of another person, but for herself. She has neglected her own needs for too long.

Continued coaching also helps her to realize the benefits when she begin focus on her own personal developmental needs : 1) she will be able to get in touch with her true self, 2) she may help the other parties to be more independent (and not dependent on her) and thus they can grow and mature in their personal development at their own pace and free will.

Her numerological number is 28/10.

It is good that the client comes to realization her own inner calling and purpose in life – To increase her own self worth, tapping her fullest potentials for manifestation, and not be serving other people needs. Serving others’ need, especially loved one, could be early developmental stages and necessity, but that does not mean that one should be playing that role forever.

Note: Even if the client does not come to such realization, coaching process may help her to ponder and reflect more on her inner calling and purpose in life, guided by the messages in the numerological number.


EP Coach, Andrew

Introducing EP Coaching to Corporation

Energy Psychology Coaching Service for Corporation (6-8 months follow up services)

A new service is launched - "NP-Your Potentialities Report Writing Service"

Number Psychology training for the public  refer : “Number Psychology” (English), "數字心理學" (Chinese), with Participants feedback (English), 学员学习心得 (Chinese)

Energy Psychology training for the public  refer : “Energy Psychology (English), "能量心理學" (Chinese), with Cases  (English), 处理过的案例 (Chinese)

Or, your are welcome to communicate with your HR Director / manager to bring this training to your organization / corporation.

Numerology (Number Psychology, helps to get more information for effective coaching like the above. Unlike many profiling tools used by corporation / companies (more expensive too), it is a much simpler and effective tool, with revelation of more hidden messages.

Energy Psychology helps to balance the negative energies.


This coach is most grateful to the hundreds of clients (public and corporate) who provide greater learning for the coach in the coaching sessions, thus gaining more experience and insights on what and how coaching works. As a result, this coach is more ready to provide services to the public and corporation more effectively.

While the public continues to benefit from the one-to-one coaching carried out (refer Energy Psychology Coaching Service, and [Money Clinic] Coaching Service) , the corporation and organization can benefit from customized training on Mindset Emotion and Energy Psychology Training to develop internal skills as masterful coaches. (refer Specially for Organization / Corporation). Currently a long term contract is ongoing with a corporation on one to one coaching to the management, and developing them to be masterful internal coaches, thus creating a coaching culture.

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