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For many years Helen faces numerous problems.
Frequent physical discomfort s : headache, giddiness, involuntary shivering
or shaking of the body, not to mention having some diseases in the lower
abdomen.
She is very determined to find solutions to her problems.
After giving up hope on the western medicine, which gives her no reliefs let
alone solution, she places her faith in alternative medicines, like
meditation, yoga, energy healing, energy psychology, diet, supplements, and
occasionally vegetarian food.
She also enrolls into various training programs / workshops on healing and
therapy and aspires to be a full time therapist / healer one day.
During workshops healing demonstration, when other participants exhibit
difficult symptoms like vomiting or emotional disturbance, her weak and
venerable energy field gets triggered and her physical discomforts also
surface and she shares the traumatic stories of the participants like
childhood trauma or past lives. Then healing and balancing of her energy are
applied on her, the symptoms subside or disappear. But in the later part of
the workshop the same problems appear under different stories or issues. The pattern repeats.
It is her belief that she needs to go for many such
healing workshops or individual therapeutic sessions to solve the roots of
her problems.
The language she often uses are : “I am searching for my real self” “I want
to know my ultimate purpose in life” “I want to be connected with the
Universe, God” “I want to serve the Divine” “I want to serve the humanity”
“I don’t know what I am supposed to do” ….
She requests for some help from me, over a short time of 30 min. as our
schedule did not allow longer session.
I request for her birth-date to do a quick numerological analysis, to
validate my guess that her above difficulties are reflected in the hidden
message of the number. And I also use the hidden messages as guide for me to
do coaching work for her.
From the focused coaching questions using the hidden message in her numbers,
the following is reviewed.
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Being a school teacher, she over exerts her
responsibilities to the little children, caring for them, helping them
.. till she gets very tired and come home late every night. At the same
time she feels frustrated, resentful that the students and their parents
are not appreciative of her sacrificial efforts. This makes her feel
guilty as she cannot fulfil “unconditional love” to the children.
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She is not happy and she want to change her job –
from teacher to a therapist / healer. Yet her dilemma is that how can
she be a therapist when her own internal problems are not resolved. And
it has been many years searching and trying out many solutions till
today, still no effective solutions.
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In my coaching, I asked “Assuming you are trained
and become qualified therapist, and assume you have cleared all your
internal problems, what distinctions can you make about yourself being a
teacher and a therapist?” She has no clues, implying that she still does
not know what is her real problem, and what actually is the solutions.
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I further asked : “How much you currently love
yourself?” she said, she has improved a lot on that loving herself,
compared with years ago, then I further asked “What you need to do
differently every day so that you can further love yourself 10% more?” –
again she has no clues.
I explained that if we have more time and sessions, we
will focus on facing reality and derive joy and love from our action and
interaction daily, e.g. in the teaching job currently, as this will generate
new positive energy to reinforce her current weak energy fields.
When too much focus is on the healing of the past or imaginary problems, one
is not using the Power of Now.
Every therapy, healing or treatment is just a tool / process, not solution
in itself. The tool is considered appropriately applied, when it helps to
raise higher consciousness about self, i.e. client’s own thoughts, limiting
beliefs, emotions and psychology that create the problems and what new
belief, emotions should be installed that should lead to better performance,
with action.
Otherwise, the intended solutions are actually the problems.
Very often, healing only helps client experiencing some relief, but not
profound change for the better. This is especially so when no or little
learning is derived at the end of the healing, that can help the client to
plan and take concrete action daily, to experience the Power of Now.
Both the client and the therapist forget (or do not know) that raised
consciousness leading to daily action, is the key purpose of healing.
Note: The numerology is also a tool that was used to get more information
about the client quickly, so that professional coach can help the client to
focus on the areas where higher consciousness is required..
Number Psychology training for the public
refer : “Number Psychology”
(English), "數字心理學" (Chinese)
Numerology helps to get more information for effective coaching / healing
like the above. Unlike many profiling tools used by corporation / companies
(more expensive too), it is a much simpler and effective tool, with
revelation of more hidden messages.
End.
Please note that the next Number Psychology training in English is on
26th September Sunday with details as per
http://www.360q.com/Coach/Nu.htm
and participants feedback as at
http://www.360q.com/Coach/Nu_Feedback.htm
and Chinese class is on August 29th Sunday, details as above links, click on
Chinese version.
Or, your are welcome to communicate with your HR Director / manager to bring
this training to your organization / corporation.
Cheers
This coach is most grateful to the hundreds of clients (public and
corporate) who provide greater learning for the coach in the coaching
sessions, thus gaining more experience and insights on what and how
coaching works. As a result, this coach is more ready to provide
services to the public and corporation more effectively.
While the public continues to benefit from the one-to-one coaching
carried out (refer Energy Psychology Coaching Service,
and [Money Clinic] Coaching Service)
, the corporation and organization can benefit from customized training
on Mindset Emotion and Energy Psychology Training to develop internal
skills as masterful coaches. (refer Specially for
Organization / Corporation). Currently a long term contract
is ongoing with a corporation on one to one coaching to the management,
and developing them to be masterful internal coaches, thus creating a
coaching culture.
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