By Andrew Wong      3rd  Feb  2010
Number Psychology and Energy Psychology  Articles Series

Energy Psychology and Personality

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This article is based on experience gained from Energy Psychology coaching to individual clients (corporate and public), with emphasis on how certain aspects of personality affect client’s current performance (e.g. business results, career, investment, etc) or sickness. This discussion is on generic stories, without reviewing any particular client’s personal information.

Personality

Each individual is unique with certain personality traits. There are several personality types : e.g. achiever, helper, perfectionist, romantic etc. There is no one standard or ideal personality, as each personality has pros and cons, depending on how one makes full of his or her own attributes to produce the desired positive results.

Often people are not fully aware of their own personalities, or even if they do, he or she may not understand how the various strategies used in the personalities affect their performance or attract sickness. Strategies adopted to go about life as per certain type of personality, operate in an automatic mode, and each strategy on its own has its good rationale or value system, well justifiable. This is where the problem lies, as we will discuss in the following two generic cases.

Achiever Personality

A client is an achiever type of personality. In his late 40s, he has been very successful in his business, much to the admiration of many. Currently he feels depressed, having difficulty to sleep at night, and his health report is not so promising.

He comes to the Energy Psychology coaching session with the goals of a) restoring his health, and b) to accomplish a even greater business goal (a potential big contract with heavy investment, if not careful he can go bust.).

The following strategies in such personality of achiever are reviewed. Such strategies are, consistently and often consciously, the drivers for his action and current performance

I’m almost always busy.]
[I have an optimistic attitude.]
[I go full force until I get the job done.]
[It is sometimes difficult for me to get in touch with my feelings.]
[Financial security is extremely important to me.]
[I like to stand out in some way.]

 

It is not hard to imagine when such strategies are operated to an extreme, energies are drained. This may not be obvious in the younger days when the body still has the stamina to cope. Examine more closely, in the above case, feelings are buried deeply without recognition, expression and let along dissolution. Generally these negative feelings as a form of energy are trapped in the body.

Energy Psychology coaching often reviews hidden stories behind such incessant strategies, hence behaviour and negatively charges feelings from early years of unpleasant experiences, giving rise to the conclusions made then and adopted as general principles and strategies to be applied again and again in whatever the situations or contexts.

In this case, the client has the mental image of poverty, experienced in his childhood. He is constantly in fear of retuning to such terrible scenario.

Energy Psychology helps to identify and dissolve such negative emotional energies.

Peace Maker Personality

A client is a well respected facilitator in a corporation. His facilitation service is often called upon when there are conflicts and tension among stakeholders. Now he is facing his mid-life crisis, not sure of his direction in life, (with retirement not far in the corner), and feeling little accomplishment in his life, especially his personal and family life.

He comes to the Energy Psychology coaching session with the goals of a) seeking a clear and definitive direction in his life, and b) to be more assertive and disciplined.

The following strategies in such personality of peace-maker are reviewed. Such strategies are, consistently and often consciously, the drivers for his action and current performance.

[I often feel in union with nature and people.]
[Making choices can be very difficult. I can see the advantages and disadvantages of every option.]
[It is sometimes hard for me to know what I want when I am with other people.]
[Others see me as peaceful, but inside I often feel anxious.]
[Instead of tackling what I really need to do, I sometimes do little, unimportant things.]
[I usually prefer walking away from a disagreement to confronting someone.]
[Sometimes I feel shy and unsure of myself.]
[Supportive and harmonious relationships are very important to me.]
[I focus more on the positives than on the negative.]

I am now going to construct a story using the above strategies. Imagine such set of strategies are performed again and again,a reinforcing result or vicious circle gets created.

Since [I often feel in union with nature and people.], it is easy for me to play the role as a good facilitator, without taking sides as I see advantages and disadvantages of every point of view.

[It is sometimes hard for me to know what I want when I am with other people.] as I am always at service to others, not myself. It seems that I am running away from my true self, which can be quite frightening. Hence [Making choices can be very difficult. I can see the advantages and disadvantages of every option.] [Instead of tackling what I really need to do, I sometimes do little, unimportant things.] It is safer that way.

[I focus more on the positives than on the negative.] I really don’t have the courage and honesty to face the negatives in me, [I usually prefer walking away from a disagreement to confronting someone.]

[Supportive and harmonious relationships are very important to me.] Better don’t rock the boat, even later I may regret and hate myself for not facing the truth.

[Others see me as peaceful, but inside I often feel anxious.] Deep inside me I don’t feel real peace, which again I try to ignore and do un-important “pleasant” things to occupy myself, although I know something is missing in my life like I now feel, what they call mid-life crisis.

In this case, the client has disturbing and very negative experience in one part of his life, since then he feels safer to avoid it, not to face it, “think positive” , though the negative is still in his sub-conscious mind, generating the vicious circle he is in now.

Energy Psychology helps to identify and dissolve such negative emotional energies.

Driver for Personality

It helps to understand strategies used as compensation by the individuals to overcome something lacking, missing or avoiding thus create the motivation to use such strategies, again and again.

Until one can fully integrate the whole being : a state of well balanced fulfilment and peace with respect to the external and internal worlds, not incessantly, consciously or un-consciously driven by a set of habitual strategies and responses, one will continue to get stuck in today performance problem.

Strategies are not necessary limiting beliefs or negative thoughts. (refer Limiting Belief - the Danger, yet Unknown.). As discussed above, each strategy on its own sounds logical, worthy for action, …. But ONLY in certain context, as there is no one standard strategy (or set of strategies that make up the personality) that is the absolute formula to life challenge.

This is this over fixation of use of certain strategies (consciously or not) without making distinction of which context to be applied, get people into trouble, as observed in the many cases of my Energy Psychology coaching service to clients.

It is not necessary that all Energy Psychology coaching approach from personality, though in certain situation it could be helpful for client to have greater awareness of oneself, thus able to make wiser choices.

Please note that the coming Energy Psychology Training in May 8-9 Sat Sun does not cover use of personality, but the essential of dissolving and transforming negative energies (like negative emotions or beliefs) to positive is addressed.

Corporation / organization interested to have a one-day workshop on Energy Psychology and Personality, helping individual to release the negative and contributing towards the collective positive energy for the organization to move forward is welcomed to contact undersigned. Refer Aligning Collective Personalities Towards Organizational Excellence

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EP Coach, Andrew

EP Coach, Andrew

Introducing EP Coaching to Corporation


Energy Psychology Coaching Service for Corporation (6-8 months follow up services)

A new service is launched - "NP-Your Potentialities Report Writing Service"

Number Psychology training for the public  refer : “Number Psychology” (English), "數字心理學" (Chinese), with Participants feedback (English), 学员学习心得 (Chinese)

Energy Psychology training for the public  refer : “Energy Psychology (English), "能量心理學" (Chinese), with Cases  (English), 处理过的案例 (Chinese)

Or, your are welcome to communicate with your HR Director / manager to bring this training to your organization / corporation.

Numerology (Number Psychology, helps to get more information for effective coaching like the above. Unlike many profiling tools used by corporation / companies (more expensive too), it is a much simpler and effective tool, with revelation of more hidden messages.

Energy Psychology helps to balance the negative energies.

End.

This coach is most grateful to the hundreds of clients (public and corporate) who provide greater learning for the coach in the coaching sessions, thus gaining more experience and insights on what and how coaching works. As a result, this coach is more ready to provide services to the public and corporation more effectively.

While the public continues to benefit from the one-to-one coaching carried out (refer Energy Psychology Coaching Service, and [Money Clinic] Coaching Service) , the corporation and organization can benefit from customized training on Mindset Emotion and Energy Psychology Training to develop internal skills as masterful coaches. (refer Specially for Organization / Corporation). Currently a long term contract is ongoing with a corporation on one to one coaching to the management, and developing them to be masterful internal coaches, thus creating a coaching culture.

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